Friday, March 26, 2010

ONE WAY TO MAKE YOUR COACH LOVE YOU

Communicate not with words, but with actions, that you are engaged and present at all times.

You see, there is a major flaw in the education system. We teach people how to read, write, and now, type. Unfortunately, we are missing a key piece in relation to communication: body language and gestures.

You might communicate with words that you want to be at practice, and you have a desire to improve. However, most athletes are unaware of their body language. Wavering stances, constant twirling of the basketball, and unfocused eye contact communicate the opposite.

Your gestures are a giveaway to what you really mean. Change it! Stand tall, if you're holding a ball, keep the ball at your hip, and be an active listener with great eye contact, adding in a few head nods if you want your coach to really believe you are present and engaged.

(Thanks Lyndsey Fennelly)

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